



I stumbled on the HarsH ReaLiTy blog on BlogAbout 2013: my quest to improve my blog and broaden its readership.
HarsH ReaLiTy is the brain-child of the Opinionated Man. He posts his opinions about everything; to borrow the words of a more eloquent blogger, he likes to “Poke the Bear”. The bulk of his posts are his opinions on various issues, but he also writes poetry and fiction. My favorite feature on his blog is the Add-A-Line Poetry Feature, where followers “write” poems with each other.
HarsH ReaLiTy has had meteoric growth on his blog. In just under 7 months, he’s amassed 20,000+ followers, and 200,000+ page views.
Here is what I learned from his blog.
1. Content isn’t always King.
We hear it all the time: Content is king. Write quality posts and followers will come. The HarsH ReaLiTy blog takes a different tack:
“People think that just because you write well or have an expensive template people will come visit. This is horribly wrong. My template is free and I write about anything, visits come from the blogger going to find their audience. You will never be ‘discovered’ sorry.”
The HarsH ReaLiTy’s approach? Worry less about being the best writer. Focus your energy on putting your best material before the largest audience possible.
2. Community is King.
Opinionated Man responds to nearly every comment, although he doesn’t engage in protracted debates with followers or force his perspective (he’s already told you his opinion in the post).
He tries to draw readers in, using phrases like “Thank you” or “Interesting”:
“[Page views come from] 100% effort, I will tell you that now. But I see it as a success because of the conversation and debate, and that comes from filtering enough people to find the ones that care to create a community.”
3. Write for a Broad Audience.
At the Harsh Reality blog, there is something for everyone. Have an opinion on women in combat? How about Chik-Fil-A? Got thoughts on blogging skills/topics?
Everyone can likely find something you want to read on Harsh Reality.
I’m not suggesting we all try to make our blogs “all things to all people”. Many of you are “niche bloggers”, and prefer to keep your focus on your niche.
Even niche bloggers can write in ways that appeal to and draw in a broader audience. And even the followers do a niche blog are 3-dimensional, with broad and varied interests. Find out what they are, and write about that, too.
4. Write an E-Book.
Opinionated Man has turned HarsH ReaLiTy into an Ebook. You can read my review on the amazon.com website, so I won’t repeat it here.
I would like to see a lower price-point, though, primarily due to the length of the book. I got far more than $10 in value from the book, so it is a fair price-point: if you are serious about increasing your readership or generating income from your blog, $10 is a bargain.
$10 can be an obstacle for parents raising kids, as many of my followers are. That said, you can certainly figure out HarsH ReaLiTy’s approach for free: just spend some time on his blog.
5. Back on the Road.
It is time to get back on BlogAbout, and I’m going to start from a random link on HarsH ReaLiTy. I’ll write again from my next stop. Until then, hope you learned something from this review.




Thanks for the great review!
The thanks goes to you for putting together such a great blog…learned a lot from your site and your e-book, much of which I am already putting to use.
I’m back on “BlogAbout”, and hope you stay tuned as I’ll be exploring blogs for at least 10 more weeks. : )
LBD
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I reblogged this. Hope you don’t mind.
I NEVER mind a reblog…thanks for sharing!
Hope your readers enjoy the post!!
LBD
Great review!
Thanks!! I’ve been looking at your blog, and LOVE the poetry. How long have you been writing?
Peace,
LBD
You’re welcome. I created my blog February 28th 2013. Thank you for the likes.
Wonderful review! And so true…. Community is King, Love Live Community! 😀
I too am an O M follower and in fact am the one who wrote the letter yesterday about his eBooks! Thanks for finding my blog and liking it . Yours looks great and I will enjoy reading it ! Namaste. . .Anne
I do love Harsh Reality (found elsewhere) and yours is also supreme (newly found, thanks for the follow) – I learnt that you need to go and find an audience as opposed to wait for one, and the same person can indeed like lots of different articles. So write for many but only one may read them all 🙂
“So write for many but only one may read them all” – Brilliant!! Thanks for commenting.
Your photography is exceptional: the photo Gwithian is breathtaking. Where is that?
Peace,
LBD
🙂 Thank you and .. Thank you so much ~~ Gwithian is a beach town in Cornwall – UK – one of many beaches we have here – but Gwithian is ‘my beach’, where I spent most of my childhood
Have a beautiful day ~ LBE
I began blogging a few days ago and this post is very helpful. Thanks!
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Opinionated Man is wonderful, looks like we are both a fan of his!
With 20k+ followers, most of the blogs I’ve been wandering through for 6 days are a follower of the OM. 🙂
I really liked your blog schedule, too, and will be stopping in to see how it goes. 🙂
Peace,
LBD
Thanks, …who is Little Bird? 🙂
Little Bird is my 8 month old son, who happens to have Down Syndrome. Yankee Bird is my middle one (stepson) age 11, and Sister Bird (who wants to be called Schwester Bird because we are on a German Anime kick right now) is the oldest at 13.
I’m reading over your blog in more detail…I have stepkids, too, and I’m gonna move on over to that post for the rest of this comment!
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So true! Great review, Thanks for sharing!